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Sunday, November 30, 2008
Sunday, November 23, 2008
irony
Outside the Church, most of their peers were against Proposition 8; inexperienced in marriage and child-rearing, they saw no harm in gay marriage.
So when our Latter-day Saint singles heeded the call of the church's leaders to take part in the defense of marriage, they, more than any other group of Saints, were swimming upstream.
They worked hard. They took risks. And many of them paid a price that is heavy indeed.
Many of them lost dear friends -- sometimes with bitter, angry recriminations from people they had once been close to.
It seems ironic that these young Mormons were open-minded enough to be friends with people whose lives were so different from their own; but their friends, in the name of tolerance, could not remain friends with Mormons who merely stood up for their faith.
If the situation had been reversed, if Prop. 8 had failed, these LDS young people would not have rejected their friends who voted to repudiate the meaning of marriage.
And if they had, would they not have been condemned as bigots, for being unable to tolerate someone else voting his conscience?
Orson Scott Card
November 13, 2008
So when our Latter-day Saint singles heeded the call of the church's leaders to take part in the defense of marriage, they, more than any other group of Saints, were swimming upstream.
They worked hard. They took risks. And many of them paid a price that is heavy indeed.
Many of them lost dear friends -- sometimes with bitter, angry recriminations from people they had once been close to.
It seems ironic that these young Mormons were open-minded enough to be friends with people whose lives were so different from their own; but their friends, in the name of tolerance, could not remain friends with Mormons who merely stood up for their faith.
If the situation had been reversed, if Prop. 8 had failed, these LDS young people would not have rejected their friends who voted to repudiate the meaning of marriage.
And if they had, would they not have been condemned as bigots, for being unable to tolerate someone else voting his conscience?
Orson Scott Card
November 13, 2008
Sunday, November 9, 2008
choose faith
several years ago ago a friend of mine had a young daughter die in a tragic accident. hopes and dreams were shattered. my friend felt umbearable sorrow. he began to question what he had been taught and what he had taught as a missionary. the mother of my friend wrote me a letter and asked if i would give him a blessing. as i laid my hands on his head, i felt to tell him something that i had not thought aobut in exactly the same way before. the impression that ame to me was:
faith is not only a feeling: it is a decision. he would need to choose faith.
my friend did not know everything but he knew enough. he chose the road of faith and obedience. he got on his knees. his spiritual balance returned.
it has been several years since that event. a short time ago i received a letter from his son who is now serving a mission. it was full of convictoin and testimony. as i read his beautiful letter, i saw how a father's choice of faith in a very difficult time had deeply blessed the next generation.
challenges, difficulties, questions, doubts--these are part of our mortality. but we are not alone. as disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ, we have enormous spiritual reservoirs of light and truth available to us. fear and faith cannot coexist in our hearts at the same time. in our days of difficulty, we choose the road of faith. Jesus said, "be not afraid, only believe."
~ elder neil l. anderson
october 2008 general conference
this concept of making a conscious decision to choose faith touched me deeply. we are always told to have faith, but that isn't always easy. and then we try and pray for it and then feel guilty when it doesn't come. when maybe just telling ourselves that we are making that choice, like it or not, to have faith, would be easier. i truly believe in the power of our words and our thoughts, instead of just casually allowing things to happen to us and saying, "that's the way it's supposed to be." i believe that we create our lives.
faith is not only a feeling: it is a decision. he would need to choose faith.
my friend did not know everything but he knew enough. he chose the road of faith and obedience. he got on his knees. his spiritual balance returned.
it has been several years since that event. a short time ago i received a letter from his son who is now serving a mission. it was full of convictoin and testimony. as i read his beautiful letter, i saw how a father's choice of faith in a very difficult time had deeply blessed the next generation.
challenges, difficulties, questions, doubts--these are part of our mortality. but we are not alone. as disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ, we have enormous spiritual reservoirs of light and truth available to us. fear and faith cannot coexist in our hearts at the same time. in our days of difficulty, we choose the road of faith. Jesus said, "be not afraid, only believe."
~ elder neil l. anderson
october 2008 general conference
this concept of making a conscious decision to choose faith touched me deeply. we are always told to have faith, but that isn't always easy. and then we try and pray for it and then feel guilty when it doesn't come. when maybe just telling ourselves that we are making that choice, like it or not, to have faith, would be easier. i truly believe in the power of our words and our thoughts, instead of just casually allowing things to happen to us and saying, "that's the way it's supposed to be." i believe that we create our lives.
spiritual storage
..we each have moments of spiritual power, moments of inspiration and revelatoin. we must sink them into the chambers of our souls. as we do, we prepare our spiritual home storage for moments of personal difficulty. Jesus said, "settle this in your hearts, that ye will do the things which i shall teach, and command you.
~ elder neil l. anderson
october 2008 general conference
~ elder neil l. anderson
october 2008 general conference
Sunday, October 5, 2008
better
i feel like general conference was an enormous wakeup call for me. i have been so down in the dumps and sick and tired and hormonal. and very selfish. i felt like i've been in survival mode for the past two months and have only cared about myself and doing what will make me feel better or what will not make me feel sick. what i'm trying to write out here, is that i have been very un-Christlike in my thoughts and actions. and so many talks this morning just hit me smack in the face. forced me into this realization of my selfish ways. how grateful i am for the counsel of our modern day leaders. counsel that i know comes straight from the Lord. i only took shorthand notes during conference and look forward to the full transcripts so that i can get the full quotes, but in the meantime i will summarize what touched me most.
henry b. eyring's talk this morning about unity made a big impact on me.
he quoted matthew chapter 7 verses 1-2:
judge not, that ye be not judged.
for with what judgement yet judge, ye shall be judged;
and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
of course we all want to be at one with Christ and with our fellow saints, to be unified. but, lately i have lost sight of this. i have been thinking rude thoughts and allowing myself to be offended by silly things. i even went to far as to vent to two friends. who were so kind and listened but i apologize to them for it. i need to begin right now to be more Christlike, more forgiving and focus on looking for opportunities to serve others.
henry b. eyring's talk this morning about unity made a big impact on me.
he quoted matthew chapter 7 verses 1-2:
judge not, that ye be not judged.
for with what judgement yet judge, ye shall be judged;
and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
of course we all want to be at one with Christ and with our fellow saints, to be unified. but, lately i have lost sight of this. i have been thinking rude thoughts and allowing myself to be offended by silly things. i even went to far as to vent to two friends. who were so kind and listened but i apologize to them for it. i need to begin right now to be more Christlike, more forgiving and focus on looking for opportunities to serve others.
Sunday, September 7, 2008
unity
the first presidency message in the friend this month is on unity.
this quote touched me:
if we are to have unity, there are commandments we must keep concering how we feel. we must forgive and bear no malice toward those who offend us. the Savior set the example from the cross: "Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do" {Luke 23:34}. we do not know the hearts of those who offend us. nor do we know all the sources of our own anger and hurt. the apostle Paul was telling us how to love in a world of imperfect people, including ourselves, when he said, "charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil" {1 Corinthians 13:4-5}.
i pray that i will have more charity, more patience and more love towards those around me. especially towards those who offend me. "we do not know the hearts of those who offend us." how so true to remember. everyone has their own burdens they are carrying. it is a command from the Lord to be Christlike and charitable to everyone.
this quote touched me:
if we are to have unity, there are commandments we must keep concering how we feel. we must forgive and bear no malice toward those who offend us. the Savior set the example from the cross: "Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do" {Luke 23:34}. we do not know the hearts of those who offend us. nor do we know all the sources of our own anger and hurt. the apostle Paul was telling us how to love in a world of imperfect people, including ourselves, when he said, "charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil" {1 Corinthians 13:4-5}.
i pray that i will have more charity, more patience and more love towards those around me. especially towards those who offend me. "we do not know the hearts of those who offend us." how so true to remember. everyone has their own burdens they are carrying. it is a command from the Lord to be Christlike and charitable to everyone.
Sunday, August 31, 2008
motivation
i read this story from the Friend to ava last night before putting her to bed. her and i had a talk about righteous things that motivate us in our lives. and unrighteous things that we should look out for and be careful about. it is written by President Uchdorf:
Our motives and thoughts ultimately influence our actions. Let me share a personal experience from my own youth about the power of righteous motives.
After the turmoil of the Second World War, my family ended up in Russian-occupied East Germany. When I attended fourth grade, I had to learn Russian as my first foreign language in school. I found this quite difficult because of the Cyrillic alphabet, but as time went on I seemed to do all right.
When I turned 11, we had to leave East Germany overnight because of the political orientation of my father. Now I was going to school in West Germany, which was American-occupied at that time. There in school all children were required to learn English. To learn Russian had been difficult, but English was impossible for me. I thought my mouth was not made for speaking English. My teachers struggled. My parents suffered. And I knew English was definitely not my language.
But then something changed in my young life. Almost daily I rode my bicycle to the airport and watched airplanes take off and land. I read, studied, and learned everything I could find about aviation. It was my greatest desire to become a pilot. I could already picture myself in the cockpit of an airliner or in a military fighter plane. I felt deep in my heart that this was my thing!
Then I learned that to become a pilot I needed to speak English. Overnight, to the total surprise of everybody, it appeared as if my mouth had changed. I was able to learn English. It still took a lot of work, persistence, and patience, but I was able to learn English!
Why? Because of a righteous and strong motive!
The testimony of the truthfulness of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ is the most powerful motivating force in our lives. Jesus repeatedly emphasized the power of good thoughts and proper motives: “Look unto me in every thought; doubt not, fear not” (D&C 6:36).
The testimony of Jesus Christ and the restored gospel will help us in our lives to learn of God’s specific plan for us and then to act accordingly. It gives us assurance of the reality, truth, and goodness of God, of the teachings and Atonement of Jesus Christ, and of the divine calling of latter-day prophets. Our testimony motivates us to live righteously, and righteous living will cause our testimony to grow stronger.
this morning during sacrament meeting there was a talk given about what our motivation is in our lives. and if it is gospel centered, like it should be. this man talked about how family wasn't as important to him growing up as it should be. but as he grew older and times changed and his dad eventually passed away, he realized just how important family was in his life. and he realized that having an eternal family was his motivation in his life. he emotionally spoke of the loving looks his wife give him that remind him of the importance of an eternal family. and the times when he is tickling his son and having fun with him that remind him of the importance of an eternal family. it touched my soul to hear this man speak. to realize that that is one of the main motivating forces in my own life. and i am so grateful for it. how blessed i am to have a testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ and to always be striving to have an eternal family. to help my children learn all they can about our Savior Jesus Christ and what He would have us do.
Our motives and thoughts ultimately influence our actions. Let me share a personal experience from my own youth about the power of righteous motives.
After the turmoil of the Second World War, my family ended up in Russian-occupied East Germany. When I attended fourth grade, I had to learn Russian as my first foreign language in school. I found this quite difficult because of the Cyrillic alphabet, but as time went on I seemed to do all right.
When I turned 11, we had to leave East Germany overnight because of the political orientation of my father. Now I was going to school in West Germany, which was American-occupied at that time. There in school all children were required to learn English. To learn Russian had been difficult, but English was impossible for me. I thought my mouth was not made for speaking English. My teachers struggled. My parents suffered. And I knew English was definitely not my language.
But then something changed in my young life. Almost daily I rode my bicycle to the airport and watched airplanes take off and land. I read, studied, and learned everything I could find about aviation. It was my greatest desire to become a pilot. I could already picture myself in the cockpit of an airliner or in a military fighter plane. I felt deep in my heart that this was my thing!
Then I learned that to become a pilot I needed to speak English. Overnight, to the total surprise of everybody, it appeared as if my mouth had changed. I was able to learn English. It still took a lot of work, persistence, and patience, but I was able to learn English!
Why? Because of a righteous and strong motive!
The testimony of the truthfulness of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ is the most powerful motivating force in our lives. Jesus repeatedly emphasized the power of good thoughts and proper motives: “Look unto me in every thought; doubt not, fear not” (D&C 6:36).
The testimony of Jesus Christ and the restored gospel will help us in our lives to learn of God’s specific plan for us and then to act accordingly. It gives us assurance of the reality, truth, and goodness of God, of the teachings and Atonement of Jesus Christ, and of the divine calling of latter-day prophets. Our testimony motivates us to live righteously, and righteous living will cause our testimony to grow stronger.
this morning during sacrament meeting there was a talk given about what our motivation is in our lives. and if it is gospel centered, like it should be. this man talked about how family wasn't as important to him growing up as it should be. but as he grew older and times changed and his dad eventually passed away, he realized just how important family was in his life. and he realized that having an eternal family was his motivation in his life. he emotionally spoke of the loving looks his wife give him that remind him of the importance of an eternal family. and the times when he is tickling his son and having fun with him that remind him of the importance of an eternal family. it touched my soul to hear this man speak. to realize that that is one of the main motivating forces in my own life. and i am so grateful for it. how blessed i am to have a testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ and to always be striving to have an eternal family. to help my children learn all they can about our Savior Jesus Christ and what He would have us do.
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